The other side of the story, I now know what my needsare.She can focus on the three or four key needs I have so she can useher energies most effectively.For example when I have a problem, I needtime to work it out in my mind.I need my time alone to do that.In thepast, my wife would want to spend more time with me to talk about it.Ididn't know why that irritated me so but it did.Now I understand whyafter reading John Gray's book.Often we do for our partner what we wouldwant done for us.What is most interesting is, what we want done for usexacerbates the problems when they are done for our partner as in the aboveexample.
Despite what some may say, men and women are different.Ihave four children, two of each gender.We have tried not to force ourboys or girls to play with one toy or an other but the boys both gravitatedto cars and the girls to Dolls.We even bought dolls for our oldest boybecause he wanted what his older sister had. He later abandoned the dolland went for the trunks and cars.We are different, and how beautiful thedifference.
Learn what those differences are so you can develop thelove you have rather than work on the problems you are having.
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